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Changing Public Perception
If you want to change the
way people look at something, you have to inspire them to step out of
their comfort zones to see a different perspective.
People like to 'pigeon
hole' or categorize people so they can file them away in their brain for
easy reference at a later date. It makes things simpler than trying to
remember each unique detail of every individual. Grouping specific types
of people together with similar characteristics does help us sort through
the many bits of information we confront each day, but it can also cause
unfortunate filing errors that keep us from realizing important details.
Getting a person to throw
out those nice, comfortable files is not an easy thing to do. You have to
convince them that they've made a filing error, persuade them to throw out
the erroneous file, and challenge them to create a whole new filing system
altogether.
When I sustained my spinal
cord injury in 1980 at the age of 12, I got the impression that I was
expected to lie back and let the world take care of me for the rest of my
life. Such an empty existence was not appealing to my young self, but I
struggled for years to develop a strategy that would help me discover the
world and all it had to offer me so I could show the world what I had to
offer it.
My life offers visible proof of how significantly underestimated people with with spinal cord injuries can
be.
As I matured, I
unintentionally developed a life strategy that only writing my novel
IMPACT has brought to my attention through hindsight. The strategy
consisted of five basic elements: acceptance, self-discovery, goals,
action, and self-recognition.
I've educated
thousands of people by opening the channels of candid communication
to challenge
the negative things others think about people living with spinal cord
injuries, inspire
them to think differently and persuade
them to see the benefit of never underestimating the human spirit.
You
can do that, too.
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